My husband would burn my clothes, and other properties each time we have and argument and even a fight.
We dated for 8 months and have been married for one year. When we were dating, he was really sweet and kind. He was caring and generous to me. However, the first time he destroyed my property was one day when an old school mate called me out of the blues. I was excited because I haven’t heard or spoken to this person since we graduated from Uni. So in that excitement, we spend about half an hour on the phone, catching up on old times and asking after our old school friends. My husband( who was at the time my boyfriend) got angry, and left the room for the duration of the call. Once I was done with the call, I went to him to see where he was at. He got angry and demanded to know who I was talking to, I explained everything to him, but that wasn’t good enough for him. He took my iphone and smashed it on the floor, and then he took my sim card and flushed it in the toilet.
I got angry and left his house. By the time I got to my house, I noticed that he’s been calling my home phone, but I didn’t answer him, I refused to talk to him for days. A few days later, he showed up at my work place with a new iphone, begging me to forgive him for being jealous. He promised never to do it again, and he actually never did…that is until we got married.
These days, when we get in an argument, he goes after my expensive outfits shoes, and even my Peruvian hair. He would pour kerosene on them and set them on fire. And after a few days, he would replace them with new item. I am so confused. I am newly wed, and still on the honeymoon faze. We decided that we were going to wait a few years before having kids, and I am beginning to think that was a good idea because I don’t want to bring a child into this kind of situation.
Please help me…I need advice