Hi AWM. What do you think of having a child before marriage?
My boyfriend and I have been dating since 2011. Well, we broke up once for quite a while but we later worked things out. Since we got back together he really wants a baby.
At first I thought it was because I wanted to go abroad 4 my masters but even when I told him that I postponed it, he still wants a baby. Well, he says that he feels that we’ve wasted time apart and he wants a family with me asap.
He is 31 and I am 23 (I don’t mind the age difference). We’ve been talking about baby names, he been talking about marriage , but he is never specific. It looks like he wants us to first have a baby before we get married. He is planning to take me to his home soon and he keeps on reminding me to have pregnancy tests just to confirm.
AWM, I have been taking emergency pills behind his back to prevent getting pregnant because I’m afraid of ending up a single mum. I do love him, what do I do??